Okay just here me out on this, theres normal confidence which comes acceptance of who you are and truly believe being the best you is the way to live this kind of confidence is good and I am glad it is seen as attractive. However there are people that I am told are confident but they are just blatantly arrogant and people don’t mind, being arrogant won’t make dating hard for you. Then there is confidence that comes from ignorance and apathy, people who do whatever they want not because they believe in themselves but because they are too stupid to foresee consequences. I am tired of people saying you just need to be confident when its so much more than that. My main problem is that for some reason morality plays little or no role in dating.