We went to our friends yesterday for a pool day and brought our 1 year old. After we were done swimming we went inside to play a board game. My son’s skin is so dry from teething drool and swimming so I showered him after. Well I start and my husband comes in a little later to (I assumed) help me with drying him off/changing him
So he comes in and instead of being helpful at all he points out that I still have sunglasses on my head with an attitude… like kinda made me feel dumb? So I say ok thanksss (sarcastically) and then say sorry I’m more focused on our child and making sure he is showered and good than the sunglasses on my head.
Then he goes “ok you don’t need to be a little bitch about it”.
It’s the next day and it’s still really really bothering me. I know I could have given less attitude with my response but I never name call him and really don’t think his response was warranted. I will say we had been drinking a bit while by the pool but we were not wasted or anything. I ended up sleeping in the guest room because I needed space. Oh and started my period this morning so perfect storm.
Today is our anniversary and I don’t really know what to do say or feel. We haven’t talked much… just watching football on the couch during our son’s nap. Idk if I’m over reacting or should just let it go.