Hi all, I'm a 25 (M) and I was recently dating a lady I met when I was out on holiday. Now, the thing is that the lady approached me because we actually knew each other from church going days as teenagers and I asked her out for a date. Anyhow, we agreed a date to meet up and go to an amusement park and we had a lot of fun on the date ! I really enjoyed it… she mentioned that she wanted to date casually and it's fine for me to date other people because she was dealing with a divorce at the time of our date.
Now, I personally don't do the "dating other people" think because I'm a one woman man, however is my mentality outdated and too old school? because I just really don't believe in dating other people whilst I'm seeing one person.
I naturally tried setting up another date but our schedules didn't align… In that time however, they did send me pictures that they classed as "promiscuous" which i thought was confusing because I was of the understanding that she wanted to be friends, but it came across as though she wants more than that. She mentioned that she did that because she wanted attention from me, which makes sense because she was dealing with the heartbreak of her soon to be ex husband. Sometimes she would flirt back, that she admitted to which I guess is on both of us.
Now, we spoke at length about how we haven't talked for nearly a week because she needed time away from her phone, but she had explained that she's trying to operate life away from social media which is fine. We agreed that we can be friends, but i have a few questions.
Do I have a right to feel like I have been led on and should I continue being friends with the girl ?
She's still open to doing coffee dates to be fair.