Ok so I’ve (30f) been dating this guy (31m) for 2 months now. It’s the slowest burn ever but I’m loving it. We are spending a lot of quality time together. We are opposite but it works (he’s very shy, reserved. I’m warm, extrovertedish). The only issue is that we’ve only had sex once (we get drunk and then I go to sleep tbh…but still!) and we don’t even kiss / make out like that. He’s not as affectionate as I am and he’s working on it (he takes my feedback well) his love language is quality time and mine is acts of service and quality time but physical touch is also important to me. He said he doesn’t want to get too caught up in the physical because he wants to get to know me and feels like he will get distracted if we were constantly physical pretty quick. We also decided to be exclusive. I’m just wondering if there’s anything I’m missing here? Is this weird or should I just enjoy what I’ve been enjoying and the physical will come when he’s ready? I don’t NEED to have sex but if we decide to be in a relationship, I do. Help!! Thanks!!


Leave a Reply