I'm not a traditional girl, I'm not too bothered, if a guy wants to pay and be chivalrous that's great though, fair play and i respect and appreciate it. I'm happy to pay what i owe. What I'm curious about are people's thoughts on a guy who goes on a first date and allows the girl to pay for something (£100) and promises they'll pay their share but then doesn't. The date went south, we had a good time but things didn't really work out. I've asked him for the money by text but he just avoided responding, as in he addressed the other thing we were chatting about, but not that bit. I'm over it all dynamic wise, but I'm curious how people percieve a person who does this. I can ask my mates but they're bias anyway. He has plenty of money btw. Not a case of him being broke.