This is a pretty long one.
So I (25M) met this woman (not really sure about her age but she is older than me) in a Airbnb. She's the host's sister, she comes sometimes to clean and such, but she's not someone you have to meet – you can pass days here without even seeing her.
So we first started talking and she immediately showed some signs that I can't really put my finger on what they mean (is she being cute and welcoming or is there attraction here)
Examples:
1. I asked her if the rest of the residents know not to close the main door, she said don't worry, everyone here knows not to close it. Some time went by and when I came back to my room she saw me and showed me she wrote a letter "do not close the door" and put it on the door. Few days later when she saw me she said "I swear I thought about the door I hoped no one closed it"
2. She told me her brother told her she can come clean tomorrow, she told him "if it's for that cute guy I'll come today". she also said she had plans that day but she came for me.
3. She's calling me nicknames/pet names almost all the time and sometimes refering it to "my X" (my life etc.)
4. She asked me where I'll go after I leave here I said idk and she tried to make a big discount for me to stay until the end of the month
5. She told me about her divorce, her staying 2 weeks in bed (it happened pretty long ago), and added a line like "suddenly I found myself single" while sharing about her divorce.
6. There was another guest who came and she told me "tell him to come in half an hour" because she's cleaning (but she didn't tell me to leave too, it was kinda like "tell him to leave" while I stayed with her)
7. She said she'll update me about a discount for the prolonged stay, asking my phone number to update me. (Instead of telling me to contact her brother, who's the actual host, through the Airbnb app)
8. We were physically close a lot. I was shirtless sometimes and she didn't care. she sat on the bed and I sat right next to her, like really close while our bodies touched each other slightly, when she checked in her phone what she can do to give me a discount on my prolonged staying.
9. she also told me during a conversation "you didn't tell me your name yet"
10. She asks if I have friends here, hope I don't stay in the room a lot etc. (which again, like why is she even thinking like that – why not just "Welcome to our place, have a nice stay" – without all the "where are going after? Do you have friends here?" And such)
11. I gave her some small compliments here and there and she seemed comfortable with it. Like she said there are beautiful apartments (Airbnb of her brother) down the road and I said "more beautiful than you?" She smiled and called me a nickname. (Not in English, we don't speak English)
12. She tries to prolong conversations, even saying some made up, random things just to keep the conversation going.
The things is she's confusing as hell. There was one day she came, she saw me, barely talked to me and went shortly after without saying goodbye. Day later she acted like the opposite, asking where I'll go after I'll leave, saying "I swear I thought about the door, I hoped no one would close it", telling me she came for me even though she had plans.
But then there was our WhatsApp messages, where she updated me about the discount and such. She used nicknames throughout the entire conversation and sounded affectionate (like she does in real life). I told her I'll leave on Thursday and will update her next week if I want to prolong my staying. She said "no problem, with love" something like that. There were two days of silence so I decided to send her a text: "how are you stunning? You forgot me for two days? 😂" (Because she gave me a lot of attention then kinda disappeared for two days) She replied "I'm fine, but what do you mean forgot? I talked to you, you said you're leaving on Thursday and will update me next week"
Then I replied you're right I just haven't seen you for two days. And then "not about the apartment, just in general" – she saw that and didn't reply. I don't know I think I screw it up. but it's really hard for me to tell what's actually going on. Does she feel something towards me/is she attracted? Or it's nothing more than an affectionate lady