I recently met a really pretty girl in one of the adjacently related clubs at my college but first asked a friend if she thought that was like socially acceptable in her opinion and she said that work is basically off the table and meeting people through clubs is often thin ice.
Like what the heck happened to dating? Our parents and their parents met their partners through those avenues but now I feel like the only place to meet people is online. I know that people do meet in person but Ive seen that it is usually when there’s an instant connection and there’s really no doubt that they would say yes to your advances so I’m not counting that in this particular situation because I don’t think that people should have to wait until they meet someone that they 100% know they are interested in before asking people out.
What is your experience with this stuff? Do you think apps are the way to go? I’ve seen how the numbers are for dating apps, not good. The reason I ask is because I’m seriously concerned of what others will do or treat me like if I respectfully ask this girl to have lunch with me. I’m Mr. Respectful when it comes to this and in the past I have done this with someone I was in a club with where we both worked, which ended up leading to her telling other people and them treating me like a creep. I’ve even been falsely accused of my mortal values because I had a crush on a girl in my club and I don’t think this is right. No wonder the dating game is so difficult and we have so many lonely people in our society. Please I’d love to hear your successful stories and experiences