I 24f, have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We occasionally have sex but when we do, I can’t get out of my head. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy having sex with him but I feel so focused on so many other things like, “is he enjoying it” “does my body look okay” “does he really love me.” I just don’t know how to get these thoughts out of my head. I have had some sexual trauma in the past to where I feel scared in a sense of being touched in certain areas of my body. I have gone to a therapist but we never got to the root of my problems. Does anyone have any advice to help me go forward?