I’m just bummed and wanna know how to handle this.
Been dating a guy 2 months and he’s always been sooo into me. We hangout non stop and we’re in a friend group together so it’s just fun and easy. We all play pickleball and party together and it’s just smooth.
But…..
Friday he says he’s gonna chill at home and get stuff done. Then ends up at a friends birthday party. I felt a lil offended but then thought no it’s a birthday it’s fine. He should celebrate them.
Then Saturday we go out but we’re tired so we’re like oh we will go to this event and leave after at like 10 and go home to like cuddle and watch a movie. Then his friend from out of town calls and says to meet up and so he decides he’s not going home early with me after all. So I decide fuck it I’ll be tired for work tomorrow and stay out.
We hadn’t had sex all week and I told him it was my last night before I start my 9 day period(yes I’m fucking cursed). He does a bunch of blow which makes it impossible for him to get hard. I told him I didn’t care I just wanted to reconnect physically since we hadn’t all week and won’t be able to for so long. But he did a bunch and we couldn’t hook up. It felt like he’d rather do blow than sleep with me.
Sunday we had plans to get a drink and watch a movie after then he says meet me and my friends and he spends the night talking to them then doesn’t come home with me.
Then tonight he’s supposed to keep me company while I babysit my nephew. He calls 2 hours ahead and says he’s gonna go play pickleball instead.
I’m just feeling super rejected and like an option he’ll always choose second after his social life.
Worst part is I feel I can’t talk to him about it because we’ve been having a few hard talks lately about this topic and it’s just like…. Do I even bother telling him how I feel?
He said “we can hang tomorrow though?” When he was blowing me off and I just lied and said I had plans.
What do I do? I really don’t want to make him sound like a bad guy. I think he’s just being a bit thoughtless this week.