How do you feel seeing pictures of your partner with their exes?
September 9, 2025
How do you feel seeing pictures of your partner with their exes?
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Nothing at all, I feel more secure than ever, can’t say I was always like this š¤£
āWow, she looks younger there.ā Thatās about it.
My partner’s ex was abusive, so I’m not a huge fan.
A little insecure, but then I remember āI got the ringā š¤š¤
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Mostly I’m just looking at how cute he was (and still is)! I am friends with some of his exes. He’s always had great taste in women, from what I can tell.
Lol wtf? That’s fine.
A little uncomfortable, but thatās okay. Being a little uncomfortable sometimes is just a part of life. I let myself feel the feelings and then forget about it. We all have a past.
I pay attention to the hair line just to see how bad he’ll bald versus how he was before but that’s it.
I feel indifferent. Everyone has a past. Eh.
I’ve never seen any, but I’d probably be more focused on what he looked like in the past lmao
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I feel like Iām looking at a different person, not my partner. Doesnāt phase me one bit.
Don’t care.
We both have ex partners; the past is the past.
Completely indifferent. Sometimes, in pics of when he was a teen I feel overwhelming cuteness, but thatās about it.
Fine. They had a past before me, and thereās nothing to be jealous of..they didnāt work out clearly
Shittest feeling ya could feel
It was SO long ago that itās like looking at a different person. It does nothing to me. I got him in his prime anyways š
Never have, he got rid of them after they broke up.
iāll never understand why people keep photos with their exes soooooo
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Happy. I owe those women a thank you. They sanded some of his rough edges. Some cheated and others completely just destroyed his heart which lead him to work on himself. So by the time I met him he was a full person who was a capable adult and was ready to come into my life as my partner. I am in the healthiest relationship of my life. So when I see a few pictures there are of them together I canāt do anything but to admire how far he has come and I have them to thank for it. They might have had him before me but the one that got to keep him was me. If I ever meet them in person I will gladly shake their hand and thank them for letting him go so he could meet me
Where would I even see this?
I know this is weird, but it kind of turns me on. It makes me think that this other person desires them, but they no longer get to be with them, I do. It’s not a thought I’ve ever vocalized.
It doesnāt really bother me at this point. Weāve been together over 5 years and if those chicks were meant to be with him then heād still be with them.
Uncomfortable tbh. I know the relationship weāve made doesnāt even come close to anything from the past, not that itās ever a comparison in the first place. Iām the first. But itās just weird seeing the flings. Itās like seeing a version of him I didnāt know existed.
It stings a bit, or sure. But that’s a me issue. He has a past, as do I. It’d be weird to pretend that we didn’t and erase every sign of our pasts.
I get a little jealous because they got to be with my sweet husband but then I also feel lucky because I get to have him foresee. Then I get angry bc the majority did not treat him well. So I then want to punch the bad exes in the face.
Itās a lot of mixed emotions. I love looking at old pictures of him though. Heās so cute.
All in all I know they made him the man he is today so Iām not really bothered by it. Iām just glad I get to be with him so thanks ladies.
Wouldnt like it, luckily never had to
Itās all a part of his story and how he became the man I love, I find them pretty interesting!
At first, a little jealous. But, sheās crazy so it helped me get over it lol. We really donāt care if either of us brings up a past experience with someone we were dating before we met.
Sure, the man didnāt stay single and wait for me to show up, which is rude ( /s ) but Iām in the pictures now as he is for me. Itās our chapter now!
Their loss is my gain! They missed out on something wonderful! Also I feel mischievous and wanna draw a mustache on them lol
I used to feel insecure and jealous. Now I look at him in all of his old pictures and think about how much I love him. I don’t need to be jealous, he picked me š„¹
Triggered. Idky. I have him, but it still pisses me off haha š
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Nothing at all, I feel more secure than ever, can’t say I was always like this š¤£
āWow, she looks younger there.ā Thatās about it.
My partner’s ex was abusive, so I’m not a huge fan.
A little insecure, but then I remember āI got the ringā š¤š¤
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Mostly I’m just looking at how cute he was (and still is)! I am friends with some of his exes. He’s always had great taste in women, from what I can tell.
Lol wtf? That’s fine.
A little uncomfortable, but thatās okay. Being a little uncomfortable sometimes is just a part of life. I let myself feel the feelings and then forget about it. We all have a past.
I pay attention to the hair line just to see how bad he’ll bald versus how he was before but that’s it.
I feel indifferent. Everyone has a past. Eh.
I’ve never seen any, but I’d probably be more focused on what he looked like in the past lmao
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I feel like Iām looking at a different person, not my partner. Doesnāt phase me one bit.
Don’t care.
We both have ex partners; the past is the past.
Completely indifferent. Sometimes, in pics of when he was a teen I feel overwhelming cuteness, but thatās about it.
Fine. They had a past before me, and thereās nothing to be jealous of..they didnāt work out clearly
Shittest feeling ya could feel
It was SO long ago that itās like looking at a different person. It does nothing to me. I got him in his prime anyways š
Never have, he got rid of them after they broke up.
iāll never understand why people keep photos with their exes soooooo
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Happy. I owe those women a thank you. They sanded some of his rough edges. Some cheated and others completely just destroyed his heart which lead him to work on himself. So by the time I met him he was a full person who was a capable adult and was ready to come into my life as my partner. I am in the healthiest relationship of my life. So when I see a few pictures there are of them together I canāt do anything but to admire how far he has come and I have them to thank for it. They might have had him before me but the one that got to keep him was me. If I ever meet them in person I will gladly shake their hand and thank them for letting him go so he could meet me
Where would I even see this?
I know this is weird, but it kind of turns me on. It makes me think that this other person desires them, but they no longer get to be with them, I do. It’s not a thought I’ve ever vocalized.
It doesnāt really bother me at this point. Weāve been together over 5 years and if those chicks were meant to be with him then heād still be with them.
Uncomfortable tbh. I know the relationship weāve made doesnāt even come close to anything from the past, not that itās ever a comparison in the first place. Iām the first. But itās just weird seeing the flings. Itās like seeing a version of him I didnāt know existed.
It stings a bit, or sure. But that’s a me issue. He has a past, as do I. It’d be weird to pretend that we didn’t and erase every sign of our pasts.
I get a little jealous because they got to be with my sweet husband but then I also feel lucky because I get to have him foresee. Then I get angry bc the majority did not treat him well. So I then want to punch the bad exes in the face.
Itās a lot of mixed emotions. I love looking at old pictures of him though. Heās so cute.
All in all I know they made him the man he is today so Iām not really bothered by it. Iām just glad I get to be with him so thanks ladies.
Wouldnt like it, luckily never had to
Itās all a part of his story and how he became the man I love, I find them pretty interesting!
At first, a little jealous. But, sheās crazy so it helped me get over it lol. We really donāt care if either of us brings up a past experience with someone we were dating before we met.
Sure, the man didnāt stay single and wait for me to show up, which is rude ( /s ) but Iām in the pictures now as he is for me. Itās our chapter now!
Their loss is my gain! They missed out on something wonderful! Also I feel mischievous and wanna draw a mustache on them lol
I used to feel insecure and jealous. Now I look at him in all of his old pictures and think about how much I love him. I don’t need to be jealous, he picked me š„¹
Triggered. Idky. I have him, but it still pisses me off haha š