I feel like all conversations I have with people are somewhat serious.
One example is that my flatmate with our old flatmate and with our new one will have little laughs when talking to them, but our convos are always more serious and never jokey. I feel like it's cause of me as she's the same when we talk.
This is the case with others too.
How do I be more relaxed and chill in conversation I stop them reverting to such serious conversations lol