I'm a 23yo with no relationship or sex experience. The sex part is very much due to my own wishes, the relationship part, not so much so, I was a very unconfident kid and only got comfortable about myself a couple of years back.

I can get dates, but when the topic comes up, I'm truthful and say I've had no experience and can immediately see their behavior shift. I've talked to my girl friends about it and they say that women at that age don't want to be someone's first relationship and partner because they don't want to have to learn a grown man how to act and what to do, what to say, etc.

I feel like that's completely unfair. I know I'm a quality guy and I'm not even being given a chance because of a preconcieved notion.

What do I do to get over that hurdle?


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