(23 F) I’ve been talking and going on dates with this guy (28 m) for coming up on a year in January. I’ve told him my feelings and it was mutual and I thought maybe that would’ve helped him get the courage to ask but I’m starting to think maybe he never will at this point. I know he has some trauma with his divorce and I understand that, I just also have to think about my well being. I just feel like I’m going in circles wasting my time with a guy who’s never going to commit to me. I want him to be my boyfriend. Should I be the one to ask him? I know it’s typical that the man asks the woman to be his girlfriend but it’s 2025 I feel like I could totally ask him to be my boyfriend and it would be fine. What do you guys think?