I am a 27F and I was recently approached by a man when I was out last weekend. He told me he had to leave but wanted to get my number before he left so I gave it to him. We didn’t have much conversation at the time and going off his appearance he looked like he was close to my age. Later that day he texted me and when I asked him his age he told me he is 36. That is quite a bit older than my usual type and I told him my age and my reservations of getting to know him because of the age gap as I have only dated guys close to my age. He told me that “we have a perfect age gap” and when I asked him if he usually dates women my age he said yes usually 26-30 is his age range for women. Is this a red flag? Why does he not date women in their 30s who are closer in age than him? Or am I overthinking?


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