I (23M) am a transfer student to my college. I was out of school for a while cuz I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. This is my first semester on my own. I don’t have any friends and I’m struggling to make any. I am trying to go to events and things in order to meet people, but I haven’t been successful. I have a hard time approaching people in general as I don’t want to be seen as a creep or weirdo or whatever. It’s a constant battle in my head of not wanting to seem like an attention whore but still wanting that attention. Anyway, I have a roommate but he’s not around a lot and he doesn’t have a social circle I can latch onto. My lack of friends really sticks out to me when I’m having a meal. I want to sit down and eat with others, but I don’t know how to approach things because I don’t want to intrude on others’ mealtimes. I just need advice on how to overcome this social obstacle. Any response would be greatly appreciated.