I've got the problem of being very selfconsious which doesnt make me spontaneous and act like myself. And the big part of the problem is that this happens mostly when I'm around friends or my boyfriends friends or collegues, people I "need". Around them I'm so afraid to do something they don't like, that Im not myself and very quiet.
Around strangers or people I just met I'm easy, spontaneous, almost extravert, because I'm nog afraid of "losing" them.
Are there more people who struggle with this? Any tips?