Just quick heads up. Given the name of this group i assume many of you are introverts (who am I kidding? we all are)
Anyways, this is the insight that really shifted my thinking – leading to more sucessful relationships and interactions. The goal is not to be heard. Introverts- deep thinkers, tend to think that everything is a game or a movie: and in the social world it is a game where the shameful and shy one didn't score many points.
And yes there is some validity to that thinking. No action, no change. However do not confuse being heard with being likable. Trust me, someone will out-talk you, everytime. But why not use the super skill of introverts? Subjective experience and depth. Let them talk, on and on. But if you have something good to say, a conversation that everyone would enjoy having: bring it up and listen.
Be like a podcaster and let their talking stimulate you with curiosity- hearing the perspective of another mind.
Good luck friends