My girlfriend and I just moved to college. We are 4 hours apart. Recently we just broke up. She thinks that i have changed recently, and that I've been mean to her lately and that when something upsets me it can seep through into our conversation. Right now we both want space from ourselves, and to heal as she said. I still want to be with her. I love her so much and I know it can work out. She says she still cares for me and shes conflicted. I think she wants to be together and she just scared I won't change. I promised her to start going to therapy to deal with my issues and that i would change for her. I just don't know if we will get back together. She says if the universe wants it to happen it will, but why can't she fight for it like I am?