Men, do you let her finish first or it’s all about your needs?
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She does.
I try, every time and if she doesn’t I know I still have work to do
I finish first. If she still hungry she will put it in her mouth to get me ready otherwise I’m taking a nap.
She does finish first
My boyfriend always makes me cum first. I recover quick and am able to have multiple orgasms in one session. Him on the other hand, can only really have one without needing a decent break.
A man that loves you should always make you finish first
Her first, sometimes 2 or 3 times then my turn.
Her. At least twice before I even… erm.. enter the holey land. lol
since first time she told me “forbidden to cum before me”.lol
But more seriously It’s 20 years now, we don’t care who cum’s first. whe share the moment and what we want. 0 frustration.
It depends on the mood (and health also)
Make her cum first.
Sometimes me sometimes her. I don’t understand the line of thinking that she has to finish first every single time if we’re in a relationship. If I happen to finish first, I’ll take a breather and then make sure she finishes. I don’t like feeling like I have to follow a script.
Make sure your girl finishes first.
* Women can have multiple orgasms, contrary to men. After cuming, she’ll still get pleasure from sex.
* If you finish first, she’ll definitely feel frustrated. If you want good sex often, make sure she cums before you do.
* Highly recommend giving her head.
Ask what she likes. Most women need some form of clitoral stimulation to cum. Others can cum just from penetration. TALK to her.
We aim to finish together. If one us finishes before the other, we always make sure that the other one gets there too.
If shes up for it, then Ill uusally try and give her a second (or occassionally a third) one
She does, unless she wants me to. It’s not uncommon for my wife to get me off first (helps turn her on) and then we go again later where it’s all about her.
She does.
Men do you not understand how good her coochie feels after an orgasm? It’s night and fucking day.
She does. If I’m about to cum I slow myself down and focus on her. If she’s cums first, we both cum.
I think that both of us want to feel catered to. I want sometimes to just have her finish and me not to. I want other times for me to finish and her not to. And I want us to take turns to finish sometimes with her first and other times with me first.
I let her finish…if you finish first, kind of hard (no pun intended) for her to finish.
A gentleman always follows the rule of: Ladies first.
I don’t care who is first. I’ll make sure she finishes either way.
It really depends on several factors. Some women come fast, some take forever, some are one-and-done, some can come exactly two or exactly three times then they’re done, some can keep coming over and over, of those multi-orgasmers some are happy with the first one and everything else is icing on the cake, others want more and more; some can only come from penetration, others only from fingering/oral, some are versatile. I could answer for a specific scenario but there are so many combos I can’t list them all out.
One long term girlfriend came pretty easily and vastly preferred penetration orgasms, so I’d fuck her til she came twice, then it was my turn. Another girl took forever and it was a coin flip if she’d even come at all, but liked oral a lot, so I’d just get mine at my own pace then go down on her until and if she came.
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If I’m having sex, it’s pretty much a given that I’m having a good time. So it’s best that I make sure SHE is having a good time as well or there won’t be a next time.
If sex was just about the orgasm, I would be extremely bored. It’s easy to orgasm, but there is everything in between and after that makes it so worthwhile.
I think the problem with our self-exploitative exhibitionistic society is that porn makes sex seem clinical- it’s essentially a set of techniques to get “someone off”.
For me, “finishing” is not the end goal, it’s about connection, intimacy, the anticipation, the moments before and after that intensifies the physicality of the coupling between two minds.
I try and make sure she finishes twice before I do. I have to take a break after finishing, after all, so it’s efficient to front-load her pleasure.
The best policy is to give her an orgasm before you.
She finishes multiple times first from foreplay before we even consider moving on to me. But once we both finished at least once during the session it’s a free for all to see who can finish the most before we are both satisfied and cuddling.
I’ve finished first twice in my life, and there were extenuating circumstances.
So less significantly less than 1% of the time statistically. If she didn’t enjoy herself, I wouldn’t either. Hearing and see her pleased is more than half the reason to do it for me.
The man priorities always matter. His satisfaction first and foremost 🫶🏻😜
I have finished first once in 20 years of my relationship. This is for mutual sex. 3am rollovers I do as a gentleman does and try not to wake her up too much. Those are just for me.
Her. Every single time. Either we both get our enjoyment or neither of us do.
My general policy is her first; I get women off with my tongue and I like to finish inside, and I am not doing that in the reverse order. My previous long-term girlfriend specifically wanted to finish second (PIV, then fingering her to orgasm) because after she came she just wanted to snuggle and nap.
Depends who’s doing the work. My wife is okay with me doing cardio for 10 minutes and whatever happens, happens. If she wants to do some stuff to get me off, I’ll return the favor.
Usually, she just wants to get pounded until I’m done.
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She does.
I try, every time and if she doesn’t I know I still have work to do
I finish first. If she still hungry she will put it in her mouth to get me ready otherwise I’m taking a nap.
She does finish first
My boyfriend always makes me cum first. I recover quick and am able to have multiple orgasms in one session. Him on the other hand, can only really have one without needing a decent break.
A man that loves you should always make you finish first
Her first, sometimes 2 or 3 times then my turn.
Her. At least twice before I even… erm.. enter the holey land. lol
since first time she told me “forbidden to cum before me”.lol
But more seriously It’s 20 years now, we don’t care who cum’s first. whe share the moment and what we want. 0 frustration.
It depends on the mood (and health also)
Make her cum first.
Sometimes me sometimes her. I don’t understand the line of thinking that she has to finish first every single time if we’re in a relationship. If I happen to finish first, I’ll take a breather and then make sure she finishes. I don’t like feeling like I have to follow a script.
Make sure your girl finishes first.
* Women can have multiple orgasms, contrary to men. After cuming, she’ll still get pleasure from sex.
* If you finish first, she’ll definitely feel frustrated. If you want good sex often, make sure she cums before you do.
* Highly recommend giving her head.
Ask what she likes. Most women need some form of clitoral stimulation to cum. Others can cum just from penetration. TALK to her.
We aim to finish together. If one us finishes before the other, we always make sure that the other one gets there too.
If shes up for it, then Ill uusally try and give her a second (or occassionally a third) one
She does, unless she wants me to. It’s not uncommon for my wife to get me off first (helps turn her on) and then we go again later where it’s all about her.
She does.
Men do you not understand how good her coochie feels after an orgasm? It’s night and fucking day.
She does. If I’m about to cum I slow myself down and focus on her. If she’s cums first, we both cum.
I think that both of us want to feel catered to. I want sometimes to just have her finish and me not to. I want other times for me to finish and her not to. And I want us to take turns to finish sometimes with her first and other times with me first.
I let her finish…if you finish first, kind of hard (no pun intended) for her to finish.
A gentleman always follows the rule of: Ladies first.
I don’t care who is first. I’ll make sure she finishes either way.
It really depends on several factors. Some women come fast, some take forever, some are one-and-done, some can come exactly two or exactly three times then they’re done, some can keep coming over and over, of those multi-orgasmers some are happy with the first one and everything else is icing on the cake, others want more and more; some can only come from penetration, others only from fingering/oral, some are versatile. I could answer for a specific scenario but there are so many combos I can’t list them all out.
One long term girlfriend came pretty easily and vastly preferred penetration orgasms, so I’d fuck her til she came twice, then it was my turn. Another girl took forever and it was a coin flip if she’d even come at all, but liked oral a lot, so I’d just get mine at my own pace then go down on her until and if she came.
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If I’m having sex, it’s pretty much a given that I’m having a good time. So it’s best that I make sure SHE is having a good time as well or there won’t be a next time.
If sex was just about the orgasm, I would be extremely bored. It’s easy to orgasm, but there is everything in between and after that makes it so worthwhile.
I think the problem with our self-exploitative exhibitionistic society is that porn makes sex seem clinical- it’s essentially a set of techniques to get “someone off”.
For me, “finishing” is not the end goal, it’s about connection, intimacy, the anticipation, the moments before and after that intensifies the physicality of the coupling between two minds.
I try and make sure she finishes twice before I do. I have to take a break after finishing, after all, so it’s efficient to front-load her pleasure.
The best policy is to give her an orgasm before you.
Lick it before you stick it.
Female orgasm doesn’t matter. Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha! Hmpf. ☕ Women.
The winner of the race
She finishes multiple times first from foreplay before we even consider moving on to me. But once we both finished at least once during the session it’s a free for all to see who can finish the most before we are both satisfied and cuddling.
I’ve finished first twice in my life, and there were extenuating circumstances.
So less significantly less than 1% of the time statistically. If she didn’t enjoy herself, I wouldn’t either. Hearing and see her pleased is more than half the reason to do it for me.
The man priorities always matter. His satisfaction first and foremost 🫶🏻😜
I have finished first once in 20 years of my relationship. This is for mutual sex. 3am rollovers I do as a gentleman does and try not to wake her up too much. Those are just for me.
Her. Every single time. Either we both get our enjoyment or neither of us do.
My general policy is her first; I get women off with my tongue and I like to finish inside, and I am not doing that in the reverse order. My previous long-term girlfriend specifically wanted to finish second (PIV, then fingering her to orgasm) because after she came she just wanted to snuggle and nap.
Depends who’s doing the work. My wife is okay with me doing cardio for 10 minutes and whatever happens, happens. If she wants to do some stuff to get me off, I’ll return the favor.
Usually, she just wants to get pounded until I’m done.
She always has to finish first