I've been ghosted by a lot of different girls over the past few months, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I'm not talking about anything sexual. I'm a pretty regular guy. I'm handsome ( I think ) , I work, I have good hygiene, a car, and a house.

All I really do is talk to them, try to get to know them, ask them out, and show that I'm genuine. I'm looking to create a real bond with one girl. I have no interest in being a player or anything like that.

It's odd because every time I talk to a girl, they don't seem to know what they wants. We match on dating apps, and then they put in a half-hearted effort to get to know each other. If you're not actually interested in dating, or in me, why make a profile? Why match with me? Why give me your number? I just don't get it.

I'm starting to think it's me. Maybe I show that I care too much? But being nonchalant is tough, because then it seems like I'm not interested, and they move on to someone else. I'm really confused about what I'm doing wrong.


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