Single Guys in their early 30s, how often do you have sex?
September 5, 2025
Do you not have casual hook ups?
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Ha, she thinks I’m having sex.
It’s feast or famine. I’ll have a ton of luck meeting women for a few months, then go a year without getting laid.
It’s been about a year for me. It will probably be at least another year if I’m lucky lol
It’s been more than a decade since I last did. So never.
Daily, In my imagination. Sometime twice a day.
Never
I’m 34. The last time I had sex, I was 30.
I’ve been on 7 dates since then. 3 of them hugged me and then ghosted me before the second date; that’s the closest I’ve gotten to having sex in that time.
When I was in my 30s, it depended if I was dating someone. If yes, usually everyday. If not, I didn’t do ONS or hookups.
You guys having sex
Really depends how selective I am. At times it’s probably averaged once a week, other times, a couple times a year
Last time was around 2022, and probably the situation would remain the same for long time . Im 30 years old
What’s that
I’ve been trying to find a girlfriend but generally have been in a Goldie Locks mindset with that and typically get dumped or do the dumping after the first few weeks. Been trying to have less casual sex.
The cycle is > meet a few ladies > sleep with them > it ends > I give up > I get tired of jerking it > repeat. Longest I usually go without sex in these cycles is 2-3 months.
You guys are having sex?
I’m 39…..6’2…idk the last time I got laid hahaha
I have a few previous ONS and one ex who hit me up when they’re ovulating or that day or two when they’re super horny during their period, but I’ve decided to stay single so im not on the apps looking for anything. So maybe 7-8 times a month on average?
Got divorced 4 years ago. Dated one woman for a few months, during which it was a few times per week. Hooked up with one chick for a couple of days, it didn’t become what I’d hoped. Other than that, I don’t. If I’m going to be having sex with someone, then I’m not going to be a single guy.
zero in past 3 years
I’m mid 30s, but never. Not interested in hookups.
35 haven’t been laid in 7.5 years, haven’t been on a date in 6.5.
Im late 30s, but before dating my current gf it had been about 10 years since my last time. I had a couple of opportunities in that timeframe but I didn’t like the women enough to want to sleep with them so I passed on it. I probably could have had some good dating experiences if I put myself out there more but I lacked the confidence.
I’ve been around 10 months now without having sex, hugs, kisses or any form of physical intimacy.
I’m 35 not had sex in 1 year since the end of my last relationship
Not dating or doing hook ups atm
Happy in my own company at the moment tbh
Almost never. You get used to it.
Does single mean something else in woman-land?
What’s this “sex” you speak of? 🤔 Tickles a faint memory from a time long long ago.
30 and I don’t have sex. Granted I am not trying either so can’t really be surprised about that and honestly I imagine if I just wanted sex and I was motivated enough I could probably get some. I don’t think I could justify the effort required just to have casual sex though. I would rather just do it myself at that point. I guess for me even when I was in a relationship sex was great but it wasn’t my favorite part. I much preferred the cuddling and hugs and kisses. That really calm and peaceful feeling of being in love. Casual sex would just make me sad about not having those other components that come with a loving relationship.
The only sex I get in this age is life constantly fucking me.
HARD
As a 31 year old single guy, I’m still a virgin.
Last time I had sex was in 2003, and I am ashamed to admit it, but it wasn’t free. I’m just a regular, everyday, normal guy.
im 34, i havent had sex in my 30s yet last time i had it was around 2017 or even 16 i truly dont remember the year
2020-0
2021- 0
2022-0
2023-0
2024-0
2025-0
With a woman, zero. With my hands, plenty
According to my Excell sheet, once every 6 months.
Words can’t express how unappealing the idea of casual sex is to me.
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Ha, she thinks I’m having sex.
It’s feast or famine. I’ll have a ton of luck meeting women for a few months, then go a year without getting laid.
It’s been about a year for me. It will probably be at least another year if I’m lucky lol
It’s been more than a decade since I last did. So never.
Daily, In my imagination. Sometime twice a day.
Never
I’m 34. The last time I had sex, I was 30.
I’ve been on 7 dates since then. 3 of them hugged me and then ghosted me before the second date; that’s the closest I’ve gotten to having sex in that time.
When I was in my 30s, it depended if I was dating someone. If yes, usually everyday. If not, I didn’t do ONS or hookups.
You guys having sex
Really depends how selective I am. At times it’s probably averaged once a week, other times, a couple times a year
Last time was around 2022, and probably the situation would remain the same for long time . Im 30 years old
What’s that
I’ve been trying to find a girlfriend but generally have been in a Goldie Locks mindset with that and typically get dumped or do the dumping after the first few weeks. Been trying to have less casual sex.
The cycle is > meet a few ladies > sleep with them > it ends > I give up > I get tired of jerking it > repeat. Longest I usually go without sex in these cycles is 2-3 months.
You guys are having sex?
I’m 39…..6’2…idk the last time I got laid hahaha
I have a few previous ONS and one ex who hit me up when they’re ovulating or that day or two when they’re super horny during their period, but I’ve decided to stay single so im not on the apps looking for anything. So maybe 7-8 times a month on average?
Got divorced 4 years ago. Dated one woman for a few months, during which it was a few times per week. Hooked up with one chick for a couple of days, it didn’t become what I’d hoped. Other than that, I don’t. If I’m going to be having sex with someone, then I’m not going to be a single guy.
zero in past 3 years
I’m mid 30s, but never. Not interested in hookups.
35 haven’t been laid in 7.5 years, haven’t been on a date in 6.5.
Im late 30s, but before dating my current gf it had been about 10 years since my last time. I had a couple of opportunities in that timeframe but I didn’t like the women enough to want to sleep with them so I passed on it. I probably could have had some good dating experiences if I put myself out there more but I lacked the confidence.
I’ve been around 10 months now without having sex, hugs, kisses or any form of physical intimacy.
I’m 35 not had sex in 1 year since the end of my last relationship
Not dating or doing hook ups atm
Happy in my own company at the moment tbh
Almost never. You get used to it.
Does single mean something else in woman-land?
What’s this “sex” you speak of? 🤔 Tickles a faint memory from a time long long ago.
30 and I don’t have sex. Granted I am not trying either so can’t really be surprised about that and honestly I imagine if I just wanted sex and I was motivated enough I could probably get some. I don’t think I could justify the effort required just to have casual sex though. I would rather just do it myself at that point. I guess for me even when I was in a relationship sex was great but it wasn’t my favorite part. I much preferred the cuddling and hugs and kisses. That really calm and peaceful feeling of being in love. Casual sex would just make me sad about not having those other components that come with a loving relationship.
The only sex I get in this age is life constantly fucking me.
HARD
As a 31 year old single guy, I’m still a virgin.
Last time I had sex was in 2003, and I am ashamed to admit it, but it wasn’t free. I’m just a regular, everyday, normal guy.
im 34, i havent had sex in my 30s yet last time i had it was around 2017 or even 16 i truly dont remember the year
2020-0
2021- 0
2022-0
2023-0
2024-0
2025-0
With a woman, zero. With my hands, plenty
According to my Excell sheet, once every 6 months.
Words can’t express how unappealing the idea of casual sex is to me.