Hung out with this guy for the second time at his place. It was late last weekend, he made dinner and we watched a show. Then we started making out and he really wanted to have sex but I stopped him. He eventually fell asleep on me and when I tried to move he pulled me in to cuddle. Every time I moved he pulled me in closer and we ended up cuddling all night. In the morning I had to leave for a trip the next day (just for the day). He gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye. Told me that he hopes I have a safe trip and that we would hang out again when I got back.
Well….the whole week has gone by and I haven’t heard from him. I already felt like he was only interested in sex, but that whole interaction at the end threw me off. But now not hearing from him at all is making me think again that he’s not interested and just wanted sex.
I know people will say just text him, but I’ve been in too many situations where I reach out first and men lie to and breadcrumb me for attention. Guess I’m just looking for an outside perspective.
Also, I know I shouldn’t really care that much, just that it’s rare I meet guys I actually like in the place that I live.