The answer I’ve been given in the past is I’m too hyper aware, but I don’t think that’s the case anymore.
I just recently moved into a dorm at my college and so far things seem to be the same bitter way they’ve always been. I try my hardest to put my self out there, be laid back and chill with whoever I meet while still maintaining a polite, and respectful mannerism. However, it seems nothing I’ve tried works. I feel as if interactions work out well with people yet I’m the only one who doesn’t get texted, I get ghosted, and the way I’m looked at and the way people who I just met seem to have already decided they dislike me genuinely baffles me.
At this point I’m wondering what’s missing and what I’m doing wrong. What can I change to do better?