I just want someone to reassure me that this is the right choice and it’s gonna work out… we are recently engaged after 4.5 years together, own a house and have a 10 month old daughter & 2 dogs.
He has shown signs of narcissism and anger throughout the relationship but I drew the line last night when he tried to break the door down next to our sleeping baby and then proceeded to verbally assault my father when I called him for backup. My priority is to protect my daughter at all costs and want her to grow up in a loving household rather than be subjected to this behaviour.
The thought of starting over is fucking terrifying. I have a good job and strong support system but we have built this life together that I’m just supposed to.. walk away from. I know it’s what I need to do but would love if anyone was willing to share personal experiences of leaving at this stage in the relationship & it being the right choice.
TL;DR need to leave after building a life and family together; please share personal experiences.