My gf and I are thinking about trying anal stuff, neither of us have much experience of any with it. She has pretty good hygiene and I’m sure just a little extra wash and maybe avoid some gassy foods and she’ll be fine.
However to get her on board I told her I’d also be open to some exploration. I’ve heard butt plugs can be enjoyable for a guy as well and would also be interested in letting her toss a finger in.
I’ve been open to the idea of her slipping a surprise finger, but we have been on the same page about my butthole.. not without some tlc! Not that it isn’t thoroughly cleaned and taken care of, I have quite a bit of hair down there and never bothered to try waxing as it’s not something I’ve been wanting to expect.
TLDR, my gf has a clean backdoor but what else do you recommend if expecting a visitor.
And I want clean myself up to open up the possibility