Is it normal that a friend of mine never asked me how I’ve been doing once in 1.5 months, since I moved to another city to do an internship?
And when I got uncomfortable with it, and asked her how she’s been doing instead and whether we should call each other soon, no reply since 5 days now.
We had a similar situation before where I was abroad for six months, and either (in the beginning) I reached out to her, or she didn’t reply to me for a while again cause I asked about how her new relationship was going, and she didn’t like that for some reason. It took her around two months to tell that it made her feel uncomfortable, and it was only after I asked if everything was alright.
I feel like this has developed into somewhat of a toxic friendship, as it’s giving very good for a while (as she can be very thoughtful in important occasions and especially when we’r in the same city), and then she completely disappears on me when I am out of town, and I instantly think whether she’s upset again and is therefore avoiding me.
Should I let it go? Or still give her the benefit of the doubt? What do you guys think?