Hi, I've had a very close friend for a few years now. We go to the same school but are in different year groups. For over 2 years now, I've always been the one sending the text first or calling first, and 5% chance she'll answer the facetime, and takes at least 3 business days responding to my text. I ask her why she does this but she just says she's always busy with extra curriculars and all that. But it's impossible to be busy 24/7 and can't spare a few seconds for a single text? And I know she often plays roblox with her other friends but I feel like it's very rare for me even though she says I'm her #1 Priority friend…
Anyways I've been on a personal strike of not initiating ANYTHING to see if she's really that bad, and it has so far been a month and I still have no texts or 'hi's from her… but I still see her playing 99 nights in a forest (roblox game), her tiktok reposts are VERY recent and idk what to do now. I was also in the library the other day and I went to sit at a table close to their friend group, so I'm guaranteed in her line of sight but I didn't hear any hey or whatever.
Like I know these are all toxic behaviours but I don't want to drop her cuz she has been a close friend for ages that's nice to hang out with too. So I just dont know what to do right now and wondering if anyone else has experienced this lol.