Hi! i’m new to Reddit, but i’m seeking advice, i don’t really have anyone in my life i could talk about this with, but im a F25, BF is M30, we’ve been dating for about 10 months, so not that long. Our relationship is fine, but i’ve noticed he kind of “hyper-sexual” if that makes sense. Like, i get he’s a man and testosterone can be really strong and that’s fine because i would say i have a healthy sex-drive as well, but im bf excessively masturbates it seems. We have sex all the time, and it can be multiple times in one day, but sometimes i’ll see him just start randomly masturbating out of nowhere on the couch, sneaking off to the bathroom to do it, or the bedroom like all day long from the time we wake up until we go to bed.. even with me “asleep” next to him in bed.. is this normal? I actually seen another post similar to this actually and the comments called the person the post was made about a “gooner” but i’d rather keep this as serious as possible lmao. but i’m guessing what im wanting to know if this is normal or not? i try to give him grace in the fact he’s been single for a long time before we started dating and he’s probably just use to pleasing himself like that, but it’s almost like a young man going through puberty bad.. when i say all the time i mean ALL the time. Any advice or thoughts are appreciated.


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