It typically goes like this:
- you scroll for a while and an algorithm serves you a video/meme
- women are making fun of some typical guy behavior they do not like which they find often on dating apps or in the real world
- the implication is that said behavior is one of the reason's why they don't date
- the comments agree, maybe chime in with more behaviors/traits
- you get an uptick of frustration, because you do not do any of those bad things, plus you do lots of the good stuff yet you are still single – dissonance gives a tiny ouchie of psychological damage
- nothing positive is accomplished, I still do not know what the hell I'm doing wrong, the girls still will be annoyed by the behavior, the guys they make fun of will probably never learn or disappear. Only party benefiting is the social media company getting engagement and more eyes on ads.
- you try to mark the content as "not interesting" but the algorithm already knows that on average it generates high engagement, so similar content will appear
I am sure the exact same thing happens on the other side just with the sexes flipped. You can try to ignore it but if this is the "societal sauce" in which a sufficient percentage of people is swimming, some effects are bound to show up.
I don't have any ideas how to solve this, it's bigger than us, just chiming in.