I've been in a long distance relationship with my bf for about almost a year now. It's been going pretty well and he even gifted me alot of things. We also call basically everyday for hours. But there's an issue that's been going on for a few months now.
It all started with when he made 'jokes' about me going out to cheat on him with other men, to which I obviously refused but still joked along with him because he didn't sound serious or upset, just joking around. At one point he even made it clear he was just 'joking'.
But, I know he can get jealous very easily, which happened when a male friend of my female friend decided to join us to play a game, to which my boyfriend felt jealous about because it's a man. He also brought up something bad his ex gf used to do, to which I replied by saying my ex bf did the same. Ever since I said that he is now acting super strange today, very quiet, dry, which is unusual. I know he's upset at me but what did I do..?
And to add to it, I told him I'd go to a cinema with a female friend of mine together in a few days to which he replied in a sarcastic manner by saying "Suree". I was of course a little upset by his response and clearly expressed it, to which he ignored it and later brought it up after an hour by asking me why I seemed so 'offended' and that he would start suspecting things now.
I don't know what to do honestly. It doesn't seem like a joke anymore and it seems more like he's just trying to play it off as a joke.
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Just ask him what would he like your relationship with other men be like.