29 m married for a year and have been with my beautiful wife (27f) for almost 9 years,. We've had a pretty consistent sex life and I think I can confidently say that we both have good sex. The problem is over the past two or three years I found it harder and harder to initiate with her and it's always been pretty consistently me initiating, except for that one time a month when she's really in the mood. We tend to still have sex once a week which I know isn't bad, but it almost feels like it's out of need not want. It has gotten to the point where we only have sex on the weekends and I just feel like I'm annoying her when I try to get her in the mood or initiate on a weekday. I have a pretty high sex drive and Im obsessed with this goddess that walks around my house . How do we get out of this seemingly structured sex life and find spontaneity with my partner again?