Me and my husband are in our mid twenties and first year of marriage. We have been arguing about my attitude because I am not soft enough. He says my tone is very loud and the way I say things are aggressive. I’ve really been trying to work on this but he says he sees no input. So my wife’s… do y’all agree on this? If so how did you become softer and more feminine. For my husband’s.. is it essential for your wife to be soft so you can take lead? What am I doing wrong here? I like to speak my mind but I don’t mean any harm or attitude when going about it. Any advice helps