Im generally very direct, dry, and straight to the point. I dont like, and don't understand "fluff", so everything is quite literal to me.
I dont get out of house much often, and in turn lack social skills. I've never been diagnosed with autism, adhd, or anything else, but people around me (incusing myself) have their suspicions, plus, I suspect I may also have social anxiety. I also don't like my physique. Despite trying to get in shape, my efforts have been fruitless, and I've been told it might be a genetic issue.
Yesterday someone asked "why are you so serious?". This is not the first time I've heard this. Few months back a friend of mine dragged me to a bar to hit on women and didn't want to be alone, and I ended up sitting quietly in a corner and minded my own business. Later that friend came to me and said "you see that girl? She came to me and asked why is your friend so serious?" At the time I didn't think too much about it, but it kinda stuck in my head. So when yesterday I heard the same thing, it immediately made me think why am I like this? How should I be then? How should I act and behave?
So, my question is, how do you human? What can I do to improve?