After having heard and read for years about the benefits of scheduled sex versus trying to wait for spontaneous we finally decided to give it a go… It has been life-changing! We have always had a pretty healthy sex life, but between work (I own a company) and our large family (we have six kids), and general busyness sometimes it would come and go…
So my wife had the idea of creating a schedule: Mondays, Thursdays, Saturdays.
Mondays are to be casual and light and fun. Thursdays are date night and I’m generally in charge of it- usually it is a “scene“ -something more planned out. Saturdays are flexible… sometimes another date, sometimes I plan it, sometimes she plans it… Sometimes casual sometimes another “scene”..
We are having more fun than ever! We have been married for 24 years and are as hot for each other as ever! On the nights that we don’t have scheduled as intimacy, we always make out before bed. We get each other a little hot and bothered, give each other a kiss and say “see you in a few days“. Fridays are the best because we are remembering Thursday night and looking forward to Saturday.
Don’t think that there’s no romance or specialness in planning intimacy! Give it a try and make sure you are communicating a lot!!