Last year I caught my husband looking at inappropriate reels on instagram. He admitted to jerking off to these reels, and was ashamed and told me he didn’t want to be that person. Fast forward 7 months later, I find out he’s doing it again but on Facebook. We’ve only been married for 5 years and we have a 3 year old son. After catching him the second time, he admits that when I’m not home and he’s bored, he’ll start scrolling and he can’t control it. We talked through a lot of it. He’s even wants to get rid of his smart phone and get a flip phone so that the temptation doesn’t come. I’m nervous this is going to ruin our marriage. Has anyone had a husband that actually stopped? I want to help him but I feel like it’s out of my control. We have s*x about 3x a week. I told him if he gets temped to look at stuff just text me and we can work it out together.
Any good books I can suggest for him to read? He’s a good person but the internet is really sucking him into all this porn stuff. I know some people are ok with it, but I’m not. I know if it continues, our connection will fade.