Me 29 F Boyfriend 34 M
I found out my boyfriend of 3 months had been re-using the cm towel we use after sex, and willingly letting me wipe my vg with it after sex.
It was often not being washed for long periods in-between.
I started getting thrush and he said well I’ve used it many times before and it’s not a problem and he also said that “many other couples do it who he knows” and he reckons “I’ve been lied to in the past that it’s clean”… none of my exes would’ve ever lie to me about that no way… how would he know.
I need to know simply YES or NO.. is this a normal thing to re use the cum towel over and over again upto possibly like 2 weeks at a time? He seems to think most people do and I’ve never in my life heard of it.
Obviously we are exclusive monogamy and it’s not something that ever has had anything but our own cum on it. But not being washed straight away in my opinion is fucked