I find this kind of weird because this wasn’t how things were originally in our marriage. We have diff work schedules and I don’t have a huge sex drive I will admit, but whether my husband initiates or me, he says to me “ok well turn me on”. Basically expecting me to like behave like a stripper or something. It gives me weird vibes as his wife and makes me feel a bit idk? Used. Is this just like how it is for others or am I right in feeling off about it? And it’s not like a one time thing either or I wouldn’t ask.