My husband of 25 years together and 21 years married says he is no longer attracted to me. He hasn't been affectionate nor have we had sex in over a year. I am not at my highest weight. I asked him to leave and want a divorce.i cannot be in a marriage where he is not attracted to me nor gives my affection or intimacy. I will tell you he watches porn, drink heavily and is a pot user. Today he said I love you how can I not I just can't give you what you need and hope someone else can. Wtf??? I would have done anything for this man.