I’ve only had sex with 2 guys so I don’t know what is common or not.
I really want to be talked to during sex. I love praise and keeping the fantasy going and basically somebody talking me through everything.
My first boyfriend didn’t really do that but I was too shy to ask. He did it a little bit though.
My second boyfriend asked me what I liked (which I appreciate!) and I told him but I had to tell him what to say literally every time and that took me out of it.
We were together for 2 years and every single time he would say “what do you want me to say?”. I gave him so many options (“good girl” “you like that?” “You’re doing so well” “just like that” etc) and he still couldn’t do it on his own and needed prompting.
I know that nobody can speak to what my future experiences might be but I was wondering if this is common? Do most guys need to prompted on what to say?
I’m not expecting a guy to be a perfect sex god straight from one of my fantasy romance books but I would love if the entire fantasy didn’t rely on me.