I don’t fit the traditional archetype of a loner. I’m not shy, nor socially awkward, I am not some basement dwelling loser. I’m the opposite: I’m good looking, confident, and am a student at a high ranking university, and I know how to hold a conversation.
But here’s the part that frustrates me: none of it translates into actual friendships. I have plenty of acquaintances, people I say, "hi" to, but no actual friends.
It’s maddening because I know how to talk to people. I’m not some weirdo giving off strange vibes. Yet for some reason, every relationship I build just stays shallow. I can get attention easily, but meaningful connection seems impossible.
At this point I don’t even know if it’s me, or if most adults are just stuck in superficial mode and don’t care to invest beyond that. Feels like I’m missing something that nobody talks about.
Anyone else in the same boat?