I'm pretty new to dating since I haven't really had much success until recently (28M) so I struggle with some of the more basic aspects that people dont typically discuss. The main questions I have essentially are:

Frequency of talking: Do you normally talk every day with matches up to when you schedule a date or should you be skipping days every so often?

Setting up a date: How long after matching do you typically try to set up a date? I know this hinges on how well the conversation is going, but assuming its pretty solid do you normally wait like a week? Or longer/shorter?

Followups: Is a date a week a reasonable pace? I dont really want to be annoying and schedule things during weekdays since people are busy/working then.

Physical Milestones: Stuff like holding hands/kissing/etc, I feel like making contact on the first date would be really creepy, but how do you actually go through with it in the first place on a 2nd date? Like surely you dont just ask right?


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