One friend is seeming to be having a mental health crisis- it seems to happen when her older kids return to college. Shes coming a part- badly – too drunk to pick up her younger kids from school, fighting with her husband and friends- I’m the only one she feels she can be honest with and has her best interests in mind- but the moment I say something like you’ve got to pull it together- she shuts down and closes me out. I’ve offered free resources at my church, our kids are the same age so I nonchalantly pick up her younger kids and take care of them more and more. She did this the past two years when her twins leave for college- but I don’t know how to handle it- it seems so selfish of her and I’m getting really tired of it.