Got this question weighting heavy on me. My gf feels like sex is all meaningless, just something that you give people and not special or have anything to do with love. This had left me feeling pretty numb. While I agree sex can definitely be hollow when you have no one special in your life. But, I feel like nothing separates me from just some random guy, nothing really makes me special because there is no difference in her mind, even in a relationship. She or I can just have sex with anyone and what does it matter because the "intimacy" of sex means nothing and has nothing to do with feelings and love, even in a relationship. So what do you think of the intimacy of sex??