Posting for a friend since she doesn't have Reddit, she's (47f) been seeing this guy (54M) thing for a few (9) months, and now it's his adult daughter's (24f) birthday. His adult daughter wants nothing to do with her and her partner's relationship. Has no desire to meet my friend, zero interest in even knowing about her. My friend is torn on whether she should say happy birthday to this adult child who wants nothing to do with her or just let her partner and her have there birthday dinner together. She's a soft soul and it hurts that her partners kid wants nothing to do with her. He's she's told her partner, it's always an argument.
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