I (22M) have been with my girlfriend (22F) for about 2 years now, and I’ve noticed that I’m usually the one who initiates sex. She rarely does, and it sometimes makes me feel like she doesn’t want me as much as I want her.
Another thing is, I love going down on her and I really enjoy it and get super into it. But after she finishes, that’s usually the end of things. She says she’s too tired and just wants to cuddle. Meanwhile, I’m left turned on and kind of frustrated.
She’s only given me a blowjob maybe twice in our entire relationship, which is tough because I really enjoy that. I feel like I have a pretty high sex drive, but she doesn’t seem to be on the same page.
I can’t help but wonder if something’s wrong with me, or if this is just a difference in sex drive/compatibility. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How did you handle it?