I am a man and wrestling with this as I am married and struggling with attraction.
I am “somewhat” sexually attracted – as in “hot naked female” brain reverts to cave man brain.
But not captivated like I have been before, and still find myself drifting to about past partners.
I’m saving some details, look through the post history – but my question specifically is
Is sexual attraction something that happens in a split second and either is or isn’t? Or is it a spectrum that is somewhat quantifiable?