I am recently divorced, and dating for the first time in 20 years. I experienced my first foray into dating apps and strongly disliked them, but I also can’t say much, because I did meet my boyfriend on one, and we have been together almost two years. My boyfriend has never been married, but has had a series of semi-long-term relationships, most of them following a similar pattern where he moves in with a woman, and they break up after 1-2 years. I am trying very hard to not judge his history, and simply meet him where he is at. As we approach the two year mark in our own relationship, the dynamic is really shifting, and I am beginning to see why maybe his relationships end after a year or two. That said, I am doing my best to not let his history psyche me out. My specific question is, do you think I am valid in questioning his dating patterns before me, or am I being unfair? Please be kind, this is all very new and scary for me. Thank you!


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