Hi everyone,
I’ve been struggling with something for a while and wanted to hear from people who may have gone through the same.
PS: I love my girlfriend alotttttt!
My girlfriend and I are in our early 20s. I’m a very hypersexual person, I genuinely love intimacy and making love. But she’s the opposite. She isn’t sexual at all, and because of that we usually don’t go beyond basic PDA.
I try to be okay with it, but deep down it bothers me a lot. I know men are often more sexual than women, so maybe she doesn’t fully understand how strong these urges feel for me. I also feel bad about the whole situation, because I don’t want to force her or make her uncomfortable.
Even when I try things like dirty talk, her responses are very dismissive. That makes me feel judged for being sexual, so I avoid bringing it up with her. Still, I can’t help but worry about whether this issue could become bigger in the future.
Has anyone else dealt with this kind of mismatch in libido? How did you handle it? Any advice, suggestions, or personal experiences would be really helpful.
Thanks!