I(m35) finally dare to ask this question.
During vaginal sex, I usually ejaculate within 30 seconds. However, I don't feel any orgasm, but the arousal subsides quickly.
But if I continue without a break, I manage often to keep going, and it then takes at least 20 minutes until I ejaculate again and have an orgasm.
When masturbating, it also takes me at least 5 minutes to come, including an orgasm.
I have been with my partner for 15 years. its my first paener. Iwonder if other men feel the same way. My partner says her ex wasn't like that. I don't dare talk to other people about it.
Does anyone else feel this way? Is this weird?
thx