Hello all, trying to broaden my horizons. I’ve never felt very sexy, but I’ve recently lost 40 pounds, gotten to a healthy weight, cut my hair, etc. Trying to live my best life!
My partner of 3 years (28M) and I (25F) have never had a “crazy” sex life but it used to be way more fun in the beginning. I’m trying to do my part while he does his to liven things up. He’s got low T and seeing a doctor soon after he got his test results back. Anyway!
My question is that I’ve always been “nervous” during sex. How do y’all feel confident? I’m thinking about how I smell. Even if I just showered. I’m thinking about my body and how I need to suck in my stomach and that I don’t really feel that turned on but this is the time we have…. How the heck does anyone just “have fun”? I feel like I’m missing the programming! How do y’all just enjoy the moment? My partner is safe and loving. We have good communication. He has NO kinks or sexual interests of any kind. I’m really trying here. Any advice welcome.
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